First, I wasn't even going to get a florist. Because I don't like the idea of spending so much money on flowers. Flowers are one of those things that I want to like more than I do. I wish I was the type of person who put out cut flowers just because they're pretty, but I don't. I wish I was plant person too, but I tend to forget about them. I do love being given flowers. My favorite was when FH would send them to my work for special occasions. But that's super expensive.
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The simple flower arrangements I want. |
The downside was that I'd have to put everything together myself the days leading up. And sure, I could have asked for help, but with an out of town wedding that's hard to really count on.
At the advice of almost everyone I know, I priced out some florists. Most weren't willing to talk with in my budget. One even sent me a link to a "what brides spend on wedding flowers" website, and all I could think is that just because you have a link that says MOST people pay you that ridiculous price, doesn't make it right. Others kept trying to stear me away from the really small and simple arrangements I wanted to much bigger more expensive ones.
Type of arrangement that was being SOLD to me. Beautiful, but not my style. |
In the end I got an estimate from my day of coordinator. She's charging me $1300 and she's doing all of the work. She sent me the break down, so I can see where the mark ups are... for example my boquet is 12 gerber dasies wrapped in 2 colors of ribbon. At an upscale florist I can buy a dozen daisies for under $50, ribbon if I had to buy the whole spools $6. I'm being charged $85. Granted it is less that the $100-150 alot of places will charge. And there is next to no mark up on the centerpiece flowers...
The other great thing, is that she totally understood what I was going for in my simple arrangements. so for an extra $300 in labor costs I get to relax for the two days leading up to my wedding and we don't have to keep bulk flowers alive. Plus, a florist will make sure that my flowers look great the day of. A bulk website is just gonna send me what they have.
Part 3 will go over Photographer. I didn't realize I had so much to say about flowers!
2 comments:
sent you a link?? that's soo rude!! there should be option for all budgets.. This is silly.. glad you found something that works for you hon.
Kitty, I know. It was such a strange way of telling me that they couldn't possibly do what I wanted in my budget. And then she sent me pictures of arrangements that were nothing like what I wanted. When I asked for an estimate regardless of it being in my price range, she never answered. Glad I found someone else too!
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